Monday, November 29, 2010

Let the Temper Tantrums Begin!

I wasn't expecting it to start so soon but... let the temper tantrums begin! And I mean full on, all out, scream, cry (no tears) tantrums. They can strike at any moment and happen over the smallest things. The other night he threw one simply because a toy would not do what he wanted it to do. Have we entered the terrible 2's a bit early???

On our trip back from Thanksgiving, we stopped halfway through to get food. When trying to get Donovan back in the car, he started a tantrum. Arched his back and straightened all limbs in an effort to NOT get strapped back in the car seat. He then yelled and fake cried off and on for over an HOUR. We have had tantrums over food, over the word "no".... really over everything.

I do wonder how long this will last. I also wonder if I'll have any hair left by the time it does.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Hello? It's been a while!

We've been busy over here and my computer time has diminished due to a certain 14 month old. So, what's new you ask? I am through with my training for Ashford University and will start teaching soon! I am also done with all training for Gymboree and have been teaching Art for 4 weeks now. I love it. It can be a lot of work some days but it's fun and I forgot how much I enjoy actually teaching and being around kids. Donovan and I still hit up Gymboree but now that it's free for us, we go a LOT more and have been trying out other classes such as music. We also go to Open Gym a couple times a week. It's been so good for him, he loves it there and it's a free activity we can do together. He's even getting better at sort of playing with other kids. If pulling other's hair and taking toys qualifies as playing at this age... although he does enjoy chasing (and being chased) and peek-a-boo with the other kids. Gymboree has become his all time favorite place, he gives me the BIGGEST smiles when we get there. And, of course, there are lots of ladies to flirt with!

He is a SUPER SMART problem solver which has made every day it's own challenge. He will look at objects and figure out how to use them to his advantage. The other day he figured out that he could take the pillows off the couch and use them to climb ONTO the couch! He LOVES to climb, on anything and everything. Luckily he has learned how to get down from places so once he gets up... he can USUALLY get back down. He still makes me nervous! He is quite the little boy though and seems to have no fear - he will just go and always looks so happy and proud when he figures out something new or gets onto something else.

I really can't believe how fast he is growing and how he really is looking more and more like a little boy and less like a baby. I look at photos a year apart side by side and get a little sad...


He is growing up so fast! I love toddlerhood (well parts of it!) and he is turning into such a sweet, smart little boy. He will surprise you with hugs and kisses and his laugh will melt your heart. Not sure how we got so blessed with him and we feel so lucky to have such a great kid!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

HGTV here we come!

Big haps in the Olden household this week. We are officially going to be featured on an episode of Real Estate Intervention on HGTV (Tuesdays: 9:30pm). We'll get real estate advice from some experts and rooms redone by Sabrina Soto and her design team. It'll be a surprise so we will be banished from our home for 2 days and we have no idea what rooms will be renovated. We're excited about participating on the show and we plan on hosting an open house right after everything is done. Hopefully the redesign will get more people in and looking at our home - ideally we'll get an offer! If nothing else, it'll be fun to participate in a TV show and get some rooms redone and some new furniture. We start taping on Tuesday and we'll blog about the process and what everything is like, good and bad.

The other big news is that I started working again this week. I am going through training for teaching online college classes... it's amazing how many people just have no clue how to navigate a web site. I am also going to be teaching art on Saturday mornings for Gymboree Play and Music. The best part about that is Gymboree will now be FREE for Donovan and any other children we have. No bad for a few hours of work once a week!

In Donovan news... we had his 1 year appointment this week. He is now 22 pounds and 28 inches tall! He runs everywhere and is pretty much non stop all day long. He has learned how to play peek a boo with the curtains and this game entertains him for a looooong time. He's so cute when he does it because he laughs, smiles and seems so proud of himself. He babble talks a lot but is mostly our little observer. He likes to just watch and take everything in. He is also very smart. He can look at things and study them... figuring out how they work and how to make them do what he wants them to do. Last week he managed to arrange things in the living room so he could climb onto a table. I watched him study and problem solve - it was kind of awesome until I realized he's too smart and is truly keeping me on my toes everyday! He is doing things so much quicker now and learning so fast...

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Stay at Home Mom: The hardest job you'll ever have for no pay

When I was pregnant with Donovan, I was SURE I'd go back to work. I did not see any option for our family living on a single salary and did not think there was much I could do from home to earn money. As my pregnancy progressed and the 08-09 school year came to an end I realized, I'd rather be a stay at home mom. Well that and, my school eliminated art which is what I was teaching. While I knew staying home would be life changing and different from being at work everyday I had NO IDEA how hard it would be.

Fast forward one year and I am now a stay at home mommy to a budding toddler. I am asked frequently what it is I do all day. It has been suggested that I sit around and watch TV, play on Facebook and laze about while Donovan runs around like a crazy person in the playroom. While there are the occasional pajama days in our home most days, this is not the case. I have traded in my table side alarm clock for one of the human variety.

Every morning at some point between the hours of 6:30 and 8:30 I am awakened to a screaming child. He does not care if mommy was up late, he does not care if mommy is tired or cranky. I go in and lovingly give him hugs and kisses, change his diaper and bring him downstairs. The morning is the only time the television is on while he is awake. I get out some toys, put on Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and make a bottle. If he is not in the clingy mood, I even get to make myself some coffee! About an hour after the bottle it's breakfast time for us both and after making two different breakfasts (someone is picky!), we eat. Donovan spends about two hours sort of watching the Disney Channel but mostly playing and only really looking at the TV while the characters are singing. I get on the floor and play with him... most times I can only get on the computer for a few minutes or else someone decides I am not giving him enough attention and throws a fit. After playing and if I am lucky he decides he will take a morning nap and I get to shower and clean the morning dishes. No nap = no shower and a dirty kitchen as I have a small person attached to my leg.

The morning nap can last anywhere from 30 minutes to 3 hours depending on how tired little man is. When he wakes up he either gets a snack or lunch depending on what time it is. I usually forget to eat during this time. If we have errands to do, this is the time we get them done. Long gone are the days of a "quick trip to the grocery store". I do not remember what a quick trip is like. I have been asked before why I didn't get to the gorcery store, bank and costco all in one day. A trip out goes something like this: prepare diaper bag with all essentials and all the things we MAY need should Donovan need something. Make sure diaper is freshly changed. Get Donovan dressed, making sure shoes are on (a hard task as he hates shoes but wants to walk around everywhere making them necessary). Get myself, the diaper bag, my purse and list and Donovan out the front door to the car. Little man wants to walk to the car so this alone takes a good 5 minutes. Get Donovan in the car, strapped in and make sure he has some toys. Drive to the store. Get Donovan and all his stuff out of the car. Find a cart that isn't so gross it makes me want to cry. Get through the store with a toddler who is constantly trying to pull a Houdini and get out of the cart and trying to pull everything within reach off the shelves. Hopefully there are no all out temper tantrums. God forbid we forget the binkie in case of said temper tantrums. Leave the grocery store stressed and frazzled after about one hour. If there is another errand to run, watch out. By this time, Donovan has had enough and the next errand will take twice as long due to him not cooperating. Drive home and if he is cranky, drive home to the sounds of a screaming kid. After a few hours worth of trips that use to take 30-45 minutes, the unloading begins. Unstrap Donovan and lead him toward the front door. Try to grab all bags and get to the front door in one trip while making sure Donovan follows me and doesn't get distracted by the bushes that have been outside the front door since before he was born. Manage to get us and all our stuff into the house in one trip (not always the case). If another trip is necessary, put Donovan in the playroom and run back out to the car while I listen to him scream because I am not in the same room as him.

Now the fun beings, try to unpack and put away groceries while my "little helper" tries to close every door and cabinet as soon as I open it. Takes twice as long to put the groceries away. Halfway through putting them away, Donovan needs a snack. Set up snack, put him in his highchair and get everything else put away. Depending on the time and his mood it is now time for either a nap or play. If he naps, I get to eat lunch! If not, we play for a while. I try to check email but the moment I sit down, he runs over screaming... he's an attention hog. We play and hopefully he takes an afternoon nap (this doesn't always happen). During the afternoon nap I can eat lunch, start preparing dinner and even do things for myself - a break if you will - maybe even a short nap myself! Or I do the laundry and clean. Naps for mommy rarely happen anymore as it makes my day shorter and I get even less done. After his afternoon nap we have a snack and go outside for a while. The park or a walk - something to keep him occupied. Hopefully dinner gets started and god forbid I need to get anything else done or even go to the bathroom.

It seems like every little thing I do takes twice as long these days. Just getting out of the house takes 15 minutes. Breaks are limited and zoning out is not an option. Trying to get things done is always harder when you have a child attached to your leg. Every second he is awake he demands my undivided attention. Trying to write an email, write out thank you notes, cook.... all of these things are next to impossible a lot of days. I have never worked so hard or such long hours. I constantly have to think up new things to do to keep Donovan engaged and happy. I miss "me" time and quick trips to the store. I miss shopping for clothes and actually getting to try them on before I buy them. These days it's buy, pray they fit, and usually return them because they don't. I miss manicures, pedicures, long showers and going to the bathroom alone. I miss sleeping in and watching whatever I want to on TV. I miss my old friends, hanging out and seeing movies uninterrupted IN the movie theater. I hate Mickey Mouse Clubhouse.

But... I love my life and I love my child. I am so glad I made the decision to stay home and raise him myself. I've gotten to see every milestone so far. I've seen his first smile, his first steps and heard his first words. He makes me laugh and smile everyday with his glowing personality - he's a funny kid! Being there for him makes all the things I "miss" not matter so much. So, as I sit here, hungry and tired, with my chipped nails, bad roots and a long list of tasks to get done... I smile. Trading in kickball and hanging out at the bar with friends for Gymboree and playdates has been the best life change I could have asked for.

Being a mom is the hardest job I have ever had but it's also the most rewarding. Clich├ęd I know but it's true. It's not always easy and there are days I want to cry, pull my hair out or crawl into a hole and hide but I am happy and Donovan is happy. He is only a baby and a toddler once. Too soon he'll be wanting to play with friends and not be around me anymore. I am taking advantage of this time in his life because I'll only get to be the center of his world once and while I am making sacrifices to do this - I wouldn't trade it for the world.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

One Year Old!

We survived the first year and are now the proud parents of a one year old. It's hard to believe that he's one already... where has the time gone? He has done so much over the past few months. He is not just walking, he's running. He has two teeth with a third popping in. He claps, waves and does "touchdown". He has also started holding one finger up for "I'm Number One". He'll give kisses when you ask him to (and sometimes hugs) and we're teaching him how to blow kisses. He says all sorts of words, mama, dada, mum, hi, wow, oh, yeah, uh oh, all done - of course none of it on command or around lots of people... he gets shy. He has started to get upset when Mommy or Daddy leave the room and has decided that he can live solely on eggs, hot dogs, chicken nuggets and grilled cheese forever.

He has SUCH a personality and can be very strong willed - which means... temper tantrums. These usually occur in his high chair and revolve around whatever food has been placed in front of him that he doesn't want. We are working on breaking this habit ASAP. He loves to play and go for walks. He especially loves the park and climbing on all the structures. It's getting harder and harder to take him out places as he just wants to get down and run all the time.

Tonight was his first birthday celebration just with Mommy and Daddy. We had cupcakes with a one candle, we sang and let him have at it. Took him a couple minutes but once he realized he could eat it and it was good - he went to town! When he was done, he was laughing, clapping and screeching (his new thing when he's REALLY happy). It was a good way to end his first birthday - we are very much looking forward to his party on Saturday!!


It's amazing how fast he's growing and he makes us smile every day. This past year has been an adjustment but we wouldn't trade it for the world. He is the best kid any parents could ask for and we look forward to the coming years and all he will accomplish. In the meantime, take a look at this little montage of his first year:

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

We have a full blown crawler!

Donovan is now 9 months old and with that came - crawling. No more rest for Mommy and Daddy as we are constantly running around after the little man as he explores EVERYTHING he can! He does a cure crawl, one foot, one knee thing. See the short video below:

He can also pull himself up and even walk when holding onto to furniture or us. I think he'll be walking by his first birthday for sure! Check him out:

We've had a busy month and are amazed everyday by all the new things he does and how fast he's growing. He says a few words now, but never on command. He says MaMa, DaDo (yep, dado, not dada), Wow, Hi, Yeah and Oh. He says Oh and Wow a LOT when he's studying toys or other things. I keep trying to get this on video but so far, no go. He sees the camera and smiles - my little ham... NO clue WHY he would know what a camera is. LOL

We spent the holiday weekend down in NC visiting Nana, PopPop and Auntie Heather. Donovan had fun and we even got to go swimming at the pool. Child LOVES to swim with his Mama.

This week we are up north. Donovan's Great-Gram (Annee's grandma) is in the hospital and we've come to pay her a visit. While it's nice to see everyone, we wish it were happier circumstances.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

So much has happened!

OK first thing...

Since our last post, we took our rental car (a 2009 Dodge Grand Caravan) on our drive to MA and NH to attend Grandma's 90th birthday party. It was a surprise and she was shocked to see us all there. Donovan did well with everyone and while a little cranky, and a slight fever, he did well. It was fun to see everyone and it was a nice day.


You would never tell from these photos but Donovan was quite ill. When we left the party, he started coughing and then wheezing badly. His fever went up again and when we couldn't get it back down, we took him to the local emergency room in NH. After a LONG night they figured he had croup and an ear infection and admitted him. He stayed for 3 days until the wheezing was more under control. ON top of that, he also got bronchiolitis. Poor little guy!! We had to give him nebulizer treatments for about a week and he hated it but in the end, he tolerated them better... even played a bit. We are so glad he is better now though!!


Anyway, as I said earlier, on our trip we had a rental because of my car accident. We drove a minivan (nicknamed the monstermobile) and... sad to admit I LOVED it so...we got our own! Had my car back from the shop for ONE day before we traded it in for this:


A 2011 Toyota Sienna Sport Edition. I love it even more than the Dodge. It drives great, is sporty looking (well as sporty as a minivan can look) and I LOVE it. It has a backup camera, XM, all the doors are power... 
yeah it rocks.

We've been kind of laying low since we've been back from our trip. Donovan had MANY doctor visits after the ordeal and we have just been letting him get better. We'll be taking a trip the end of the month to North Carolina and my business has been picking up so I have some photo shoots in the near future which is great!  We're looking forward to summer and being outdoors with Donovan as much as possible! We even got him a little kiddie pool for the backyard and are looking at getting him a little swingset  for his birthday :)

Here are some more photos from the past few weeks:


Saturday, April 24, 2010

Cell phones and driving do NOT mix!!!

Donovan and I were in a car accident today. WE ARE BOTH OK. I was very shaken for a few hours after though.

I was driving down the road and a car (guy on his cell) swerved into my lane. I reacted without looking and slammed the side of my car into one of those yellow concrete parking lot poles (WHAT is the purpose of those dumbass things?!?!!?)

The front passengers side door needs to be replaced (it can't even open) and the back passenger door will need to be banged out and repainted. I am hoping they don't tell us we can't use Donovan's car seat anymore although, luckily, it's the infant carrier which is about to be retired for him.

One nice thing is that we have awesome insurance. I am taking the car to a Progressive Conseirge Service Center on Monday. I'll drive my car in, they'll assess the damage, repair it and my rental will even be waiting for me! They'll be giving me a rental that is the same car I already drive - which is awesome. When the car is done they'll call and tell me to come get it and I leave the rental there with them. Hooray! I am all about the one stop shopping, repair, etc as that is SO MUCH EASIER with Donovan in tow. 

My poor car :-(


Friday, April 23, 2010

Playdate with the "Girlfriend"

Yesterday, Donovan had a playdate with Remy, his little girlfriend. He met Remy through Gymboree and she is about a month older than he is. They squeal when they see each other and hold hands, play and steal binkies from each other. We had a lot of fun... Melissa and I went out to lunch first and then we took the kiddos to the park (well, we had to find a park but the one we found was pretty awesome!)

Once there I took a lot of photos of them. Not only for us to have but to work on promoting my new photography business ( Thanks to them and for my great gift idea:

I already have FOUR booking for my services!! I am so excited and really feel like this business venture could actually take off and grow into something. Mom and Dad... happy I am using that photography degree you paid for??? :-)

Here are some of the photos from the playdate, look in our Picasa album to see them all!